No pressure...here is what it means

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Dear friend

Stop putting so much pressure on yourself. You don’t have to have everything figured out. 

It’s okay not to know how you are going to work through tomorrow, none of us have it all figured it out anyway.

I like how Nick Vujicic says…Man plans, God Laughs…boy if you read his book love without limits you will see what I mean. It just shows you that sometimes your plans can go haywire but that is not the end of the world.

I’m mot saying don’t be organized. No, you need to have a plan because as they say, failing to plan is planning to fail but all I’m saying you need to loosen up a bit.

When was the last time you had a meal with your family, when was the last time you forgave yourself.

 Yes I said it, forgive yourself. Most people are always beating themselves up for something but sometimes you have to give yourself a break.

No one is perfect and that’s okay. We all make mistakes and that’s okay

Today is all we have...so enjoy every moment of it

With love 

Monica

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