Have you been asked why you are not dating?

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 Have you been asked why you aren’t dating?

I guess if you are a young person like me...this sounds familiar.

So here is some real truth. Dating someone else just because you are heartbroken 💔 doesn't help at all. Take time to grieve because if it doesn't hurt then just like Moffat Machingura says... perhaps there was nothing worthwhile

Don't break more hearts just to heal your own. It doesn't work like that. Take time to heal then you move on. You deserve healthy relationships not countless heartbreaks.

Just so you know, I’m not against dating at all but I’m against going into a relationship just to fit in or because your friends are telling you that the clock is ticking.

One of my favorite speakers, Myles Munroe encourages us young people to embrace singleness. Take it as the necessary time you need to prepare yourself for the significant other who is preparing for you.

There is no need to rush the process and like Moffat Machingura the author of How I kissed heartbreak goodbye says… “Give time some time and someday another person will come and will show you why it didn’t work out with the others”

Our stories are all different, so stop looking at how the other is doing their stuff and try to copy, embrace where you are and when the time is right you will meet the right person.

If all you are doing is rushing it, it won’t last...less haste more speed...the way I see it…it’s in the steadiness that everything will fall into place and that moment it will happen so fast but because it is just right, it will make perfect sense.

Wow, I love a happy ending 😊😊

With love

Monica


 

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