Be original...

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Dear friend

"It's better to be hated for who you are than to be loved for what you are not"

The one who thought of that came to such a remarkable conclusion

That we need to stop pretending to be what we are not in order to keep those who are not meant to be part of our destiny.

Sometimes you just have to let go

That how you can be your true self and find your purpose

Be motivated

With love

Monica



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  1. Kudzie KufaJanuary 27, 2021 at 11:36 PM

    "We need to stop pretending to be what we are not in order to keep to keep those who are not meant to be part of our destiny"
    I liked that part more because at one point in life I feel sad after choosing to stay true to who I am and lose some people I feel should be part of my destiny. I then realized that being original is better because no mater how many people who leave you for your originality the little circle you are left with will always make you feel satisfied.
    Enjoy being yourself and don't let anyone change who you are. Appreciate everything about yourself and everyone as wel. "Everybody is somebody" always remember that you might choose to let go of people that are giving you unnecessary pressure and still feel empty without them today but in 2 yrs time it will be a dim memory of them.
    God's art on you is perfect and the qualities he gave you..he gave you knowing exactly what you are going to encounter in life so don't feel ashamed of who you are. He knew you will need the original you along the way!
    Love yourself and learn to let go. That's the only way to conquer hate coz hate comes from the frustration of not being loved...you want who to love you when you can't love yourself?! not being your true self is cheating. Be original! Thanks friend.

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